12 questions · 4 min

Alexithymia test: identifying and putting emotions into words

This questionnaire looks at three areas described in alexithymia research: recognising what you feel, putting it into words, and attention paid to the concrete rather than to the inner climate.

Questionnaire guide

How can you explore a difficulty identifying or putting emotions into words?

What is alexithymia, in practical terms?

The word refers to a difficulty identifying inner states and putting them into words, often paired with thinking turned towards facts rather than towards feeling. It is not a condition listed as such in the classifications, nor an absence of emotions. Many people feel very strongly while struggling to name what is going on.

Why is it hard to name what you feel?

The body can signal discomfort (a tight throat, a knot in the stomach, tiredness) before an emotion word is available. Stress, a habit of functioning in the concrete, or a background where emotions were rarely named can widen that gap. The questionnaire separates this inner recognition from the ability to explain it to someone else.

Is alexithymia linked to autism or ADHD?

It is common across several ways of functioning, including autism, without belonging to them alone. An autistic lead, ADHD or a period of exhaustion can coexist with difficulty naming emotions. This test therefore cannot conclude one or the other. It describes a style, not a label to choose.

Why does this test not copy any well-known scale?

The TAS-20 and other research tools are protected and reserved for authorised use. The questions here cover the same published areas (identifying, describing, outward-oriented thinking) with everyday situations. A high score is not equivalent to the result of a clinical scale and cannot be compared with published norms.

What can you do if putting emotions into words is difficult?

Starting by describing the body rather than the emotion ("I have a tight throat") is often more accessible. A professional can help widen that vocabulary. If this difficulty blocks your relationships, follow-up remains more useful than a questionnaire. The result can serve as a concrete example to talk about it.

Frequently asked questions

Questions you may have

Can this test confirm that I am alexithymic?

No. Alexithymia is not a diagnosis that you confirm or rule out. The result only describes whether you recognise yourself in three areas. No medical threshold is used here.

Can you feel a great deal and still struggle to say it?

Yes. Alexithymia is not an absence of feeling. It is about identifying and putting feelings into words. Strong emotional sensitivity and difficulty naming can coexist.

Is it the same as not liking to talk about yourself?

Not necessarily. Some people avoid the subject out of reserve or by choice. Here, the questions also cover the moment when you cannot find the word, even when you would like to be understood.

Why does the test talk about concrete thinking?

Research often describes attention turned towards facts, solutions and action, more than towards the emotional climate. This style is neither a fault nor proof. It only helps distinguish several facets.

Who can I turn to if this gets in the way day to day?

You can talk to a psychologist or a doctor. Describing specific situations (an argument, a silence, a misunderstanding) is more useful than a score. The questionnaire does not replace that conversation.

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