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Articles & resources on neurodivergent dating
Tips, lived experience and practical guides for loving and meeting when you think, feel or function differently.
- Neurodivergent dating2 min
What is demisexual? Meaning and dating
Demisexuality is part of the asexual spectrum: sexual attraction may develop after an emotional bond, but is not guaranteed. Meaning and guidance for dating.
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- Neurodivergent dating2 min
Tourette and dating: meeting people with tics
Dating with Tourette syndrome as an adult: discussing tics if you wish, choosing the setting and establishing boundaries with a partner.
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- Autism dating8 min
Alexithymia and Love: When You Can't Name What You Feel
Alexithymia makes it hard to identify and put emotions into words. What that changes in a relationship, how to tell it apart from indifference, and what actually helps.
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- Neurodivergent dating9 min
Asexuality, demisexuality and neurodivergence: naming your relationship to desire
Asexual, demisexual, graysexual: clear definitions, what belongs to orientation and what belongs to sensory or medical life, and how to say it early without justifying yourself.
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- Autism dating8 min
Autistic burnout: spotting the collapse before it costs you the relationship
Autistic burnout is neither depression nor work burnout. Learn the early signs, understand what the relationship adds, and support a recovery measured in months.
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- Neurodivergent dating9 min
Late diagnosis in adulthood: what it changes in a relationship
An autism or ADHD diagnosis at 30, 40 or 50 rewrites the whole story of a relationship. Retrospective rereading, grief, the partner's reaction and the agreements to renegotiate.
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- Autism dating9 min
Moving in together when you are neurodivergent: space, noise, routines
Sensory audit of the flat, a place to retreat to, separate bedrooms, chores and transition rituals: what to settle before moving in together as a neurodivergent couple.
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- Neurodivergent dating8 min
Autistic and ADHD Women: Late Diagnosis and Love Life
Diagnostic criteria built on mostly male samples, social camouflage well rehearsed: recognition comes late. What years of compensating do to a relationship.
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